What to write on a card to someone who is incurably ill?
Someone close to you is seriously ill. Perhaps the person has been diagnosed with cancer or you know that the disease process cannot be cured. You want to let them know something, make them feel that you are thinking of them. But how do you start? What do you write on a card to someone who is incurably ill?
It is normal if you hesitate. Maybe you feel uncomfortable or afraid of saying something wrong. Maybe you've been putting off calling or visiting for a while. Don't feel guilty about that - this is hard, for everyone. What always feels good is sending a card. altijd goed voelt, is een kaartje sturen.
A gentle thud on the mat. A small gesture, with great meaning.
Text for an illness or cancer card
What do you write on an illness card? The right words are often simple. You don't have to fix it or say everything. Above all, a card is a sign of connection. A handwritten sentence like:
- ‘I think of you every day’.
- ‘I don't know what to say, but I want you to know I'm here.’
- There is no right text for what you are going through, but this card is a hug on paper.’
At Stamps, we often hear back how meaningful such small gestures can be. Especially during a period of illness, people often feel alone - and it is precisely then that a simple card can provide connection.
A card with a lucky charm
Want to send something tangible along with it? Then our lucky charm pack might be something for you. fortune doll. A small, handmade fortune doll to send with your card. It is small, but it gives a big feeling: a symbol of hope, warmth and connection.
Many people hang the lucky doll on their key ring or bag, as a daily reminder that someone is thinking of them.
You can order a card with a lucky charm here.
Sending a card? Don't let that stop you
A card doesn't have to be perfect. It just has to be from you. A few warm words, a small gesture - it makes all the difference.
Don't let a lack of words hold you back. Stamps is happy to help you get started.
Volunteers designed beautiful cards. You will find them in our shop at Kaartje2Go.
And maybe your card will soon be on someone's mat like a thud of love.
How can the Stamps app be helpfull?
When you are ill or in mourning, a lot comes your way. With Stamps, you don't have to share the same story over and over again. Our user-friendly and free app makes it easy to share your health updates with family and friends.
Get started today with the Stamps app. Don't go through a difficult time alone. With Stamps, you stay connected to friends and family, can plan and coordinate appointments and meals from 2025, and experience love wherever you are.
